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| Author: | Hernaja1 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | For better or for worse but this is hard to swallow !!!!! |
This is part of marriage I never took into consideration this early into our marriage ( 5 years ). I always figured for better or for worse was pertaining to hers and mainly my mistakes. Maybe when me or her health is not well when we get older . This one though really has rocked me. My wife's mother had a tumor the size of 2 tennis balls removed from her head 2 days ago. We still had optimism that every thing might work out radiation and chemo. But we found out that the tumor is cancerous. Making matters worse the cancer is glioblastoma . The most aggressive form of cancer in the brain. She has ben given 6-18 months too live. This Has Ben very hard to handle being that it's my wife going through this. All I can do is support her. My mother in law is a sweet women who has lived a simple yet happy life always worrying about everyone other then herself . I Just don't understand gods thinking. My poor wife has dealt and taken care of both my father in laws strokes . Now this. Just can't understand how both of them deserve this . I had just gotten home from our lady of the Lourdes medical center in Lafayette ( great staff and accommodations ) to home In sulphur to feed my dogs. I figured we wouldn't hear anything till tomorrow being that I left at 8 pm. I get a call soon as I get home with the news . First I felt for my wife ( just can't seem to get a break ) , then hits me my mother in law who calls me son is going to die , three my wife is an hour and a half away from me. Sorry guys just wanted to vent a lil. Figured MMT is just as good as anywhere and has to be a better read then The shit ole DGuidry puts On here. I'm off to bed and headed back to Lafayette in the AM. Thanks for reading those that do. Prayers for my amazing wife are much appreciated ! |
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| Author: | DmaxHunter [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:09 am ] |
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Prayers for you and your family bud, we do not always understand gods rhyme or reason, but it is there. Don't loose faith just be happy that lady gave you a great wife, and good memories. |
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| Author: | dguidry [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:35 am ] |
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This ole dguidry wishes well for your family. Hope you see yourself through all these trials and tribulations. |
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| Author: | Southland_Hunter [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 4:10 am ] |
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Really sorry to hear all of this. Prayers to you and your family. My friend, only 19, that was enlisted in the marines last year was also diagnosed with glioblastoma a few months back. The doctors told his family to cherish every moment with him in 2016 because he won't see 2017. |
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| Author: | Quackhead62 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 4:11 am ] |
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Praying for you and yours. Cancer is a rough thing to deal with. My mom beat it years ago but lost my grand ma to it. It can be beat. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | Mudhole [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 5:49 am ] |
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I'm so very sorry to hear all that man! Prayers for your family! |
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| Author: | JD145 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 6:15 am ] |
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Prayers for your family |
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| Author: | cumminsman03 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 6:20 am ] |
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Prayers going out to y'all!!! My wife went through the same thing when she lost her dad to sarcoma. |
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| Author: | GenHee [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 6:26 am ] |
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You have our Prayers. |
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| Author: | tchauvin [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 6:32 am ] |
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Praying for your family...God bless... |
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| Author: | mucknaked [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 7:56 am ] |
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Some times when it seems, like things are falling apart. They are falling into place. The most important thing is that God loves us, he gave his son. Grab to that see what comes out of this Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | DeoVindice [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 9:44 am ] |
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Prayers for you and yours... |
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| Author: | Andy [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 10:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: For better or for worse but this is hard to swallow !!!! |
Prayers to you and your family from both, my wife and I |
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| Author: | scarygary [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 11:00 am ] |
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Jay I'm sorry to hear that. But be strong for your wife. She's a great person as you are. Yall will get through this. Me and Darlene will be praying for yall, if you need to talk give me a call. God be with you Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | 4Cody4 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 11:07 am ] |
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Praying for you guys. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | huck Finn [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:09 pm ] |
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| Author: | craig [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:26 pm ] |
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Damn man. Sorry to hear this. Prayers for your family. |
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| Author: | lastchance [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 1:42 pm ] |
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Prayers for your family. God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers! |
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| Author: | Hernaja1 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 2:52 pm ] |
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Thanks everyone for the responses. Really means a lot ! The hardest part is seeing my wife suffer. Wish I could do more for her. All I can do is be there for her , listen to her when she talks, hold her when she cries, give her advice when she ask for it. I do agree God does not give you more then you can handle. We will be ok. Just another part of our life that will make us become better Christians and a have an even close bond. Again Thanks everyone !!! |
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| Author: | WestEndAngler [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 3:00 pm ] |
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You & your family will be in my prayers. |
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| Author: | duck_watcher12 [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 3:41 pm ] |
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Will be praying for you and your family. |
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| Author: | med [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 4:25 pm ] |
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Praying for your family. |
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| Author: | mudxxed [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 5:05 pm ] |
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Prayers for your family bud |
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| Author: | JLACOUR [ Thu Jan 07, 2016 7:51 pm ] |
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Great comments above... Prayers for all of y'all. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | Hernaja1 [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 11:23 am ] |
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Thanks everyone we really appreciate all the prayers and kind words. Things have turned for the worse today. She's no longer talking. They tried removing the drain tube in the back of her head but due to the tumor being in all the crevices of the brain , the fluid cannot drain. The brain has to have the fluid flowing or she can become brain dead. If they do more surgery they take a great risk of her quality of life being basically non existent. The hospital has ben consulting with MD Anderson out of Houston and things just are not looking very good. We are still praying . Once again thanks everyone ! |
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| Author: | gfowel [ Sat Jan 09, 2016 12:13 pm ] |
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Prayers sent! |
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| Author: | Bug [ Sat Jan 09, 2016 3:40 pm ] |
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God bless you guys, your families strength in times like these will make her last days all that much better. My heart and prayers go out to y'all... |
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| Author: | mizzippi jb [ Sat Jan 09, 2016 4:33 pm ] |
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I know how you feel. My mother in law is not too far off from my own mom, and she battled stage 4 cancer in her breast, liver, glands, and spine a year ago. Tough seeing your wife and family have to go through that. God showed us a miracle and my mother in law is in remission now. I will definitely be praying for your family. |
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| Author: | cheniermudder [ Sun Jan 10, 2016 6:18 pm ] |
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Hang in there Jay. Your wife has a good man to lean on. Be strong. Best wishes and prayers. |
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| Author: | nivuahc [ Sun Jan 10, 2016 6:55 pm ] |
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Your family will be in our prayers Sent from my XT1585 using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | jtwilliams [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:52 am ] |
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prayers for your family |
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| Author: | bigoutdoors [ Wed Jan 13, 2016 4:27 am ] |
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Praying for you and your family |
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| Author: | MaXXis85 [ Wed Jan 13, 2016 8:12 am ] |
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Ill say a prayer for you and your family. |
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| Author: | Hernaja1 [ Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:02 pm ] |
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Thanks fellas !!! Yet another weekend at lady of our lourde hospital. Working during the day at cheniere, and watching the kids and spending my weekends in Lafayette. That's my chance to see the wife a little and check on my mother in law. She had a 2nd brain surgery last Sunday. Progress is slow but she does seem a little better. |
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| Author: | VooDoo Daddy [ Sat Jan 16, 2016 9:08 pm ] |
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First, prayers for everyone involved. God is not doing this. This is just how life can be. And we were condemned to the world we have now because we were not obedient to begin with when God asked us to not eat those apples. And though God is not to blame, he will use situations to teach us lessons or a friend a lesson. There is good that comes out of bad situations. Hard to believe this. But your family and wife may be getting ready to handle situations they know nothing about and could be a lot harder without this experience. Hope things go good for her and your family. |
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| Author: | Hernaja1 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 5:32 am ] |
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2-6-16 May God grant her to watch over our children. |
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| Author: | North LA Hunter [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 5:49 am ] |
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Man I hate to hear that! Prayers sent to your family. Sent from my beeper |
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| Author: | SETx Longtail [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 5:55 am ] |
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Sorry to hear it Jay. You've done your part brother, continue to be with your wife and family and see them through this. Prayers sent for y'all. |
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| Author: | Quackhead62 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 6:47 am ] |
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Sry to hear that, my family and I are praying for yours. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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| Author: | JLACOUR [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 8:20 am ] |
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She's in a better place now. Prayers for all of y'all. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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